Dear mothers, welcome!
A few days ago, I walked into the living room and saw a scene that saddened my heart. My dear child sat on the sofa, eyes glued to the phone screen, while the TV played in the background. A strange silence filled the house. There was no laughter or running. One child sat, lost in a digital world, staring at a screen. Seeing this, my heart grew heavy.
I know how challenging this is for us as mothers. We exhaust ourselves. There is cooking, cleaning, and a thousand other household chores to attend to. Sometimes, handing a child a phone feels like the only way to secure ten minutes of peace. Yet, deep down, we all know that our children need so much more than what a screen can offer. They need fresh air, hands covered in dirt, rosy cheeks, and genuine smiles.
October has arrived, and the weather is beautiful—neither too hot nor too cold! It is the perfect time to gently take back the phones, open the front door, and say, "Go on, go outside and play!"
If you are wondering how to get your children away from screens without any fuss or tantrums, don't worry at all. I have put together a list of fun, simple, and free outdoor activities that my own family loves. These ideas will be a great help in drawing your children out of the world of games and television.
- Give your child a small paper bag and a simple list.
- Tell them they are on a special mission to find natural treasures in the backyard or just outside the house.
- Keep the list very simple so they can read and understand it easily.
- 5 different types of leaves: Look for green leaves, brown leaves, big leaves, and tiny leaves.
- 3 smooth stones: They have to feel the rocks to find the smoothest ones.
- 1 dry twig: A stick that shaped like the letter 'Y' makes it even more fun!
- A piece of dry grass: Long or short grass.
- Something round: This makes them look really closely at nature.
- Pack a basic snack box: You do not need to cook a big meal. Just pack some apple slices, biscuits, or peanut butter sandwiches in a container. Food always tastes better when eaten sitting on a mat under a big tree.
- Play hide and seek: Get involved! Children love it when their mom or dad plays with them instead of just sitting on a bench looking at their own phones.
- Look at the clouds: Lay down on a big sheet on the grass. Look up at the sky together and try to guess what shapes the clouds look like. One might look like a rabbit, and another might look like a big ice cream cone! This sparks so much imagination.
- Set up a safe racetrack: Use chalk to draw a start line and a finish line on a safe driveway or a quiet park path.
- Time their laps: Hold a stopwatch (on your phone, but keep it in your pocket otherwise!) and see how fast they can ride from one point to another. Encourage them to beat their own time.
- Go for a family walk while they ride: Walk briskly alongside them. It is good exercise for you and keeps them moving forward.
- Catch Me if You Can (Tag): One person is "it" and tries to touch the others. It involves a lot of running and screaming with joy.
- Hopscotch: Draw squares on the ground with a piece of chalk, number them from 1 to 10, and teach your kids how to hop on one foot. It helps with balance and keeps them jumping happily.
- Simon Says: A great game to play in the yard. It teaches them to listen carefully while doing silly actions like jumping like a frog or touching their toes.
- Leaf Rubbing: Take some of the leaves from your scavenger hunt. Place a plain white paper over the leaf, and use a crayon to rub gently over it. The beautiful shape and veins of the leaf will magically appear on the paper!
- Stone Painting: Wash some big, flat rocks and let them dry in the sun. Give your kids some paints and brushes, and let them paint funny faces, ladybugs, or bright flowers on the stones. You can use these painted rocks to decorate your flower pots.
- Mud Kitchen: I know, I know, mama—mud means dirty clothes! But trust me, making "mud pies" with dirt, water, flowers, and twigs is one of the most joyful things a child can do. Just dress them in old clothes and let them be free.
A Fellow Mama

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